Monday, July 4, 2016

Symbols of the BDSM community. On the left, a triskelion; on the right, a Ring of O. (Credit: rationalwiki.org)

As with many other forms of non-normative sexual activity, practitioners within the BDSM lifestyle have adopted or created symbols that represent the BDSM lifestyle. Much like the rainbow flag is used as a symbol of the LGBT movement, the BDSM community use the triskelion[wp] and the Ring of O,[wp] not so much as the symbol of a movement, but more of an identifying feature, thereby allowing practitioners of the BDSM community to meet up without the need to stand in the middle of a crowded pub and shout, "Who's here for the rope-play?"

The triskelion, used in many English speaking countries, needs to be of quite specific design to be recognised as a BDSM symbol, with the outer circle and spokes needing to be of a metallic colour (gold, silver, steel or iron are the most common), the background needs to be a solid colour and the three holes need to be holes, not dots, and are usually edged in the same metal as the circle and spokes. The greasy thumbprint over the whole thing is entirely optional. However, variations of the BDSM symbol do occur where the triskelion is represented by flowers, normally red roses, that have prominent thorns shown as part of the symbol.

The second symbol, the Ring of O, is used more in continental Europe, and is widespread in use throughout the German speaking BDSM community. Very, very loosely based on the ring that the fictitious female character wears in the series of novels "The Story of O," the ring consists of a a large steel ring with an attached smaller ring which can be swivelled. The wearing of the Ring of O can also carry greater symbolism than just identifying the wearer as a member of the BDSM community. When the ring is worn on the left hand it can indicate that the wearer is a top, or dominant, whilst wearing it on the right-hand indicates a bottom, or submissive. In such cases a top would normally wear the ring on the left hand so that his or her right hand isn't wearing a heavy, metal ring that could cause unintentional damage during use, whilst a bottom wears the ring on the right hand to indicate a symbolic binding and surrendering to his or her top. Obviously, this can mean that the symbolism can be reversed for people who are left-handed and so the wearing of the Ring of O can't be used as a reliable guide to a wearer's preference. (Source)


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There are many many people in this lifestyle that I'm sure you know personally. They may not be open about it, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. There's nothing wrong with it! They are not perverts! In fact, we are not! It's a lifestyle for some and other a sexual thing! It covers many subjects so it's hard to explain but people who are into this or live in a relationship that includes this often are the best people! Peoples whose relationships last a lot longer because they are sole based on mural trust and respect!!! Don't be judgmental

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